Wedding Night Jitters

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A woman s wedding day is one of the most amazing days of her life, and she often starts the wedding preparations months in advance of the chosen date to ensure goes as seamless as possible. The bride-to-be works tirelessly to ensure the perfect wedding for both herself and her husband-to-be, but by no means does she ever forget the night that is to follow the wedding day.

The honeymoon is one part of the package that is usually anticipated by both the bride and the groom even before the wedding day approaches. And regardless of the intensity of planning that goes into the wedding preparations, the bride-to-be never forget that the most important night of her life follows closely on the heels of the most important day of her life her wedding night. From months before the wedding day would she find herself window shopping at the bridal shops and searching the lingerie magazines for ideas and inspiration, and often too she finds herself picturing the perfect wedding night, just as she does the perfect wedding day. After all, the wedding night is not one that comes along every other day, and just as the wedding day should be an unforgettably beautiful one, so too should the first night as husband and wife together be.

This said, the new bride would have one of the most daunting decisions ahead of her, notwithstanding the vows that she must make in front of her closest friends and family. Which bridal lingerie does she wear? How does she choose? How would her husband consider her? The wedding night comes along only once, and so too does the opportunity to create the most memorable night their entire married life together. In fact, bridal lingerie is just as important to the bride on her wedding night as her wedding gown would be to her on her wedding day. And of course she should feel this way, after all, every new bride wants to be the most beautiful woman in the world to her new husband. And despite what the groom-to-be may say, the expected bride definitely knows that her new husband is looking forward to the wedding night even more than she is.

The new bride may be the first-time bride in awe of her husband, or she could be the vixen that made her neighbor s husband her own. Likewise, the bridal lingerie that is chosen by the new bride at the end of the long but exhilarating wedding day is one that reflects the individual woman and her confidence in her new marriage going henceforth. It is one that gives a peep into the newlywed s future, and one that tells stories of how they get along with each other. Indeed, the bridal lingerie, like any other lingerie for that matter is simply an extension of the passionate and sensual woman beneath hidden inhibitions.

How do you deal with your wedding night jitters?
I am finally getting married in October, and I feel nervous. I never thought I would feel nervous, but I do. I love my fiance. He is so sweet, and kind, and also so masculine and rugged. He always treats me like a lady. But, frankly, I have stayed a virgin and am a tiny bit scared about the first night. What do you girls think? I am sort of a petite little thing, and my fiance is big and rugged and muscular. I just don't know what to expect. Will it hurt? I imagine myself in his arms, but that is as far as I can imagine myself. Does anyone have any advice? I want my fiance to be happy with me, and I want to please him so much. Please give me your advice. Thank you girls for your advice. You know, my fiance and I sleep together sometimes, but since we are not married yet, we just cuddle. And, confidentially speaking, when we cuddle, sometimes I do feel a little warm and I think I have even felt his manhood through our night clothes. My fiance is more experienced, but he respects that I am a virgin, and he says he loves me so he says he is glad to wait until we are married. He says it makes him feel like the first time with me will be the first for him too, even though he is more experienced. So I should expect it to hurt the first few times, and I should just go slow, and trust that my fiance will be gentle and patient and loving. I think what thrills me the most is being able to give my fiance pleasure because I love him so much. I cannot imagine, though, how it will feel to me, and hope it will eventually feel pleasurable for me too.

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wedding night jitters. please help?
what should i do on first night after wedding???????????

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Pre-wedding night/ virgin jitters... suggestions?
I'm a virgin (31). My boyfriend's (30) slept with one girl. In his culture the bride and groom are expected to be virgins on their wedding night. I've always wanted to be a virgin on my wedding night. We're planning to get married next month and yesterday the topic of sex came up. I know it may sound silly, but I got sooo nervous. I even joked that we could get one room with two beds... or better still 2 different hotels for our honeymoon. We have the same silly sense of humor, so he laughed it off. I was thinking about our honeymoon today and freaked out! Any way to ease these pre-wedding night jitters? I did have foreplay with an ex, but he knew I wanted to wait so he stopped at the very last second. We haven't had any sort of sexual contact. Though he's had sex, his strict religion is still part of him and he treats me with the uttmost respect... but has been hinting more and more about his excitement about our honeymoon. Educated... I'm 31, not stupid! I could see if I was 13, but I'm 31.. I don't need a picture book! jeez!!!

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