Beach Weddings

My groom is refusing to cooperate with me?
In regards to what he will wear at our wedding. We are having a small beach ceremony and I had envisioned him wearing a white long sleeve collared shirt with some maybe light brownish or creamy coloured pants. I told him today and he is saying he wants to wear a suit. Our wedding is so informal, I just wanted it to be casual and if he wears a suit don't our family have to wear suits too? I also wanted to go barefoot since its on the sand and just have thongs to put on after (thongs being flip-flops, I'm an aussie!) Anyway what suits grooms for beach weddings best?? I am not being a bitch I just am non-traditional and its a non-fancy wedding, dont see how a tux would fit in with that. Maybe a white suit??? Jaz, thats exact pic i get, with 2 or 3 undone buttons, he will look HOT especially with his brown skin. Thats what i imagine him looking like in the photos loose and casual but gorgeous and playing with the kids by the water Thats right B2B I have told him I will cancel the whole thing if he dont wear what I pick for him! Not like I wanted to plan the wedding myself, I hate organising things and getting stressed, so why should he decide he doesnt want to fit in with me and the bridal party?? Wifeforlife- Our gorgeous 3 year old daughter is the product of the 1% chance of getting pregnant while using condoms. We chose to become a family instead of having our baby aborted, what is not commendable about that? We wanted a 2nd child and there is a 3 year age gap between them. Now stop being a cow. Please.... we have made it 6 years together so far, if I tell him I wont be marrying him if he wears a suit he knows I am joking, Im taking Stephanies advice, ultimately he can choose but I will look up some pics and give him a look at what I was suggesting for his outfit because I think its sounds more casual than it looks. We have a great relationship, we truly do, I can be a bit stubborn at times (so can he) but we work things out. I think someone has the impression that only my family is coming, thats untrue his parents, brother and sis and their fams are coming, my parents and my brother are coming and ONE of my friends who has been my best buddy since 1994 and is more like a sister to me. And also one of my highschool friends who is a graduate photographer as she is doing our photos for free :D Allie - I was joking when I told him this, yes I would be a cow if I didnt marry him over clothing. I am just asking a clothing question here, of course I'm gonna try to persuade him to wear my idea coz it will look cool. Wishing I never asked this question, you all must think my guy is a doormat or covered in bruises hehe kill_yr_television - lol I hardly believe trying to get a guy to wear a particular shirt is the same as acting out sick fantasies with a prostitute. Besides, I won't be paying him.

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what are the package beach weddings in florida like? the pics look a bit tacky?
I plan to get married in FL in Jan. I want a nice beach wedding on a budget. Could I rent the chairs and set up the arch myself? Do you have to get a special beach permit? Have you married like this? Do you have pics? Thanks so much for any answers/help!

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What is a nice,classy alternative to getting married in a church (or religious establishment of any sort)?
While I love the buildings themselves and think most are beautiful, we aren't religious. I'm trying to get some ideas for places to get married that are nice, but also memorable/enjoyable for everyone. NO beach weddings.

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